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Going Virtual

Going Virtual

 

Home is where the heart is.  Right now, it’s also where everyone is – and will be for the foreseeable future.  If your first week of social distancing has you noticing some areas around your house that are adding to your stress levels, we can help.  Reclaim has added a Virtual DIY Organizing package to help you during this unprecedented time.

With our Virtual DIY Organizing package we start with a questionnaire where you will provide us with details (pictures, measurements, key issues, etc.) on the space(s) you would like to organize.  From there we will provide a detailed action plan that will include a complete list of recommended products with links to purchase, and instructions for product placement.  We can even ship custom handwritten or vinyl labels to your doorstep for a personalized finishing touch.

Here are some common areas that we can easily tackle virtually:

Pantry – You’ve stocked up, now what?  Is your pantry jammed with food but you have no clue what’s actually in there?  Let’s create a plan to best utilize your space and allow you to easily see your options.

Playroom – Playrooms need to work overtime right now.  Is yours a disaster zone by 10am, but kids are complaining they have nothing to play with?  It’s counterintuitive but kids tend to play deeper when there are less options and more open space.  We can help you get control of your playroom and put a system in place for storage, toy rotation, labeling, and more.

Home Office – Working from home can be a challenge.  Even more so if your workspace is cluttered and messy.  Some simple steps can make a big impact on creating a peaceful work environment – we’ll walk you through them.

Bathrooms – It’s more important now than ever that all of our medicines are up to date.  Take control of your bathroom and medicine cabinets by tossing anything expired and let’s create a new system that works for you.

Master Bedroom & Closets – It’s about that time to switch closets over to warm weather clothes.  Instead of shoving and stuffing things wherever you can find space, let’s look at your closet space with fresh eyes, edit your items, and give everything a proper home with space to breathe.

We know this time of uncertainty is leaving people feeling scared, stressed, and confused.  We have so little control of what is happening outside our homes right now.  But, we can control what goes on inside.  We are here to help you (from afar!) as much as you need right now.

Benefits of Decluttering For a Move (Even if You’re Not Moving!)

Benefits of Decluttering For a Move (Even if You’re Not Moving!)

Clutter weighs us down in our normal daily lives.  It can contribute to feelings of stress, anxiety, and steal time from us as well (oh so many minutes looking for something that should be easy to find…scotch tape! scissors! stamps!)  Daily life aside, the impact of a cluttered home gets even more serious when you are trying to sell your house – because it can have financial repercussions too.

One of our favorite authors, Gretchen Rubin, offers some great tips for clearing clutter ahead of a move in this article, but Rubin also challenges readers to consider using these approaches even if they aren’t moving.  We couldn’t agree more.

A messy, cluttered home may give potential buyers a red flag – they may wonder how well maintained the home is given it’s so disorganized, and also give them reason to offer a lower price than you are asking.  If you aren’t preparing to sell, think about how your cluttered home makes you feel, and how it affects your family. Are people always looking for things you could have sworn you just bought? Do you dread going into certain rooms because of all the stuff you’ve shoved in there?  Are certain closets classified as “open at your own risk”? 

On the flip side, a decluttered home is open and inviting; crisp, styled spaces can help buyers, or your own family, see a home with clear eyes and feel calm.  In an organized home, it’s easy to imagine the exciting possibilities.   

Decluttering to prepare for a move (real or hypothetical) is a core service we offer at Reclaim.  If you are moving, we can declutter and pack as we go. If you aren’t moving, you might feel like you’re coming home to a new house after we’ve worked our magic.  

 

 

Habits of the Highly Organized

Habits of the Highly Organized

We’ve found that the key to actually achieving a goal or resolution is to create habits that support the change.  With that in mind, we thought it would be helpful to poll our team of highly trained organizers and learn a habit they practice that helps keep them organized.

Allison – Start small. Break a large project into smaller tasks. This allows you to see the progress you have made and makes the project not seem as overwhelming.

Mary – Every night before going to bed spend 10-15 minutes tidying up and making sure everything is put away where it belongs. It makes the mornings a lot less stressful and overwhelming.

Vivian – Invest in products. It’s easy to use what you’ve got or repurpose something that isn’t the best fit but will do for now. You will never have complete satisfaction until you have the perfect product. The more visibly appealing a product is while still being functional, the more likely you will be to utilize it. Go ahead and buy that beautiful jewelry organizer you’ve been eyeing. It will be worth it.

Shelley – Decant, decant, decant! Removing bulky packaging saves space as well as improves appearance.

Olani – When you come home, put everything (purse, jacket, shoes, groceries, dog leashes, etc.) away before you settle in or move on to your next task.

Bonus Tip – Eliminate unnecessary paper clutter by not even bringing mail into your house unless another family member needs to see it, or action needs to be taken (bill to pay, RSVP to send, etc.) – if it’s junk mail or otherwise useless it will inevitably end up in a pile.  Head right to your trash can outside instead!

Try implementing one or a few of these ideas and you will be well on your way to organizational bliss.  (But – if you still need a jumpstart, we’re always a phone call away!)

Welcome Fall! Closet Organizing Tips for Cooler Temps

Welcome Fall! Closet Organizing Tips for Cooler Temps

Here in North Carolina we are finally (finally!) getting a little taste of fall weather, and although we know there are still hot days ahead, we can’t help but get excited to pull out our fall clothes and say hello to flannel and see ya next year to sundresses. Here are a few tips to help with your seasonal closet changeover.

  1. Before you put summer clothes away, identify anything you didn’t wear at all this season.  Is it worth the space and effort to store it again only to be unexcited to see it next summer? Make a toss or donate pile. **Also make a pile of anything that’s dry clean only and have that taken care of before storing for the season**
  2. Remember that seasonal clothing storage doesn’t have to be complicated, just find a system that works for you whether it’s large lidded tubs or zippered under bed storage.  Make sure everything is clean before it gets put away for the year.
  3. While your closet is on the emptier side, grab your vacuum and do a quick dust bunny round up and/or any applicable cleaning before putting the next season’s clothes in.
  4. When unpacking and putting away your clothes for the new season, again assess things before they go in your closet or in a drawer. If an item is ripped or too well worn, doesn’t fit, or doesn’t excite you – don’t let it take up physical (or mental!) space. Add those items to your toss/donate pile. If something is a closet staple that you need to replace, jot that down as you go so you’re prepared to shop!
  5. When putting clothes away in your closet, organize them by type, and then color. So that means put like with like and then within each category group by color.  Categories will depend on your lifestyle but may include work blouses, casual tops, work dresses, casual dresses, etc. Organizing by categories will allow you to quickly know which section to look to when getting ready.
  6. Consider using slim matching hangers; not only are they visually appealing but they also streamline your hanging items and reduce bulk.
  7. If you have vertical space use it strategically. Put lesser used items higher up and label so you don’t forget what’s up there! Some examples of these items might be special occasion shoes or handbags, and (depending on your climate) cold weather boots and very heavy sweaters.
  8. Since you’re on a roll and creating this beautiful fall/winter closet go ahead and give your drawers some TLC by doing a quick sort and fresh folding. Again, set yourself up for success by making sure like items are grouped together and removing anything no longer loved, needed, or useable.

Being greeted by a well-organized closet can be a much needed moment of calm on busy mornings. And don’t forget – if you’d like us to lend a hand with yours – we’re here to help!

Back to School

Back to School

It’s the most wonderful time of the year! Sorry Santa – but it’s back to school time! Organizers tend to embrace this time because it’s inherently friendly towards order and structure – two things we love! Here are a few tips to get your crew ready for class to be back in session.

It’s the perfect time to review everything in your children’s closet. Go through and assess everything all the way down to socks (toddler moms – you may need some bribes here to get the little ones to try on anything you’re unsure of). For anything that doesn’t fit either donate, or tuck away in a labeled bin for younger siblings or friends. Make a list of items that need to be replaced so you can focus when Old Navy inevitably has a major sale over the next few weeks. Getting kids dressed for school is hard enough (Opinions! Drama!) – make the mornings just a tiny bit easier on yourself and know that when you come to a magical agreement on what to wear… at least you’ll know it fits!

As excited as we are for back to school, we know it can also mean the start of runny noses and other bugs; check to make sure your children’s Motrin didn’t expire in 2012 and make a list of other essentials to stock up on like Kleenex, hand sanitizer and band aids.

Like you did with clothes, take stock of your lunch boxes and other lunch gear – make sure each item has a matching lid and/or whatever it needs to function properly; discard anything missing key parts and see if you need a restock on items that will make life easier when you’re packing your 100th PB&J in a few weeks.

Everything. Must. Be. Labeled. Order some now so you are ready to go! Check out inchbug.com for some cute options that stand up to dishwashers and frequent use.

Create a system now so that when the paperwork starts coming home you have a designated place to take action on it, easily see reminders, etc. If something is an easy sign and return – do it right away before adding it to a pile never to be heard from again. Vertical sorters such as wall pockets work well to keep piles at bay.

Gretchen Rubin

Gretchen Rubin

I had the pleasure of hearing Gretchen Rubin speak at the Annual NAPO (National Association of Productivity & Organizing Professionals) Conference last week in Ft. Worth, Texas.  As an avid listener of her podcast Happier with Gretchen Rubin, I was really excited for her keynote. Here are some of my biggest takeaways.


Photo Credit: Annette Adamska

–   Resist the urge to take freebies. They usually just send up becoming clutter. Just because it’s free doesn’t mean you need it. Reusable tote bags are a great example– while functional, you only need so many before they become clutter.

–   The One-Minute Rule. If it takes one minute or less, do it now. This is a great way to get small tasks off your to-do list. Rubin says by doing this “you’re getting rid of the scum on the surface of life.”

–   The Power Hour. Take time to do one-time tasks that consistently weigh on your mind, but could be indefinitely postponed. An example would be creating a photo album of a family trip.

–   And finally my favorite tip, “The Ex-Factor Test.” When going through your closet ask yourself, “If I were to run into an ex, would I want to be seen wearing this piece of clothing? Would I feel good about it?” In other words, is this something you love? Something you feel good in? If not, time to let it go.

If you’re interested in learning more about Gretchen Rubin, I recommend checking out her website: https://gretchenrubin.com.

Beyond Tidying Up

Beyond Tidying Up

Chances are you’ve heard all the buzz around the Netflix show Tidying Up with Marie Kondo. Since I am obsessed with all things organizing, I couldn’t wait to dive into the show. I got even more excited when I found out that a friend and former co-worker was featured on one of the episodes. She even gave me the inside scoop on what it was like to work with Marie Kondo! 

There isn’t a day that goes by where someone doesn’t ask me my thoughts on the show so I decided to write a post discussing the similarities and differences in Reclaim’s approach and the KonMari Method.

The KonMari Method has six basic rules.

Commit yourself to tidying up

We discuss commitment during our initial in-home assessment. We talk about the decluttering and organizing process and ensure that the client is on board to make the necessary changes in order to achieve their goal of a less cluttered, more organized home. To ensure success we need to make sure that the client is ready to declutter (or, in other words, “tidy up”).

Imagine your ideal lifestyle

During the in-home assessment we also get an idea of what the client’s vision is for their home. This gives us a clear picture of how they see their ideal lifestyle and helps us create the best organizing solutions for them and their needs. These personalized solutions, once put in place, will make it much easier for the client to maintain an organized home.

Finish Discarding First

We first sort and then declutter. The sorting process allows the client to see how much they have of a particular item, making it easier to make decisions as to what goes and what stays. The organizing process won’t be nearly as effective if the client doesn’t declutter (or “discard”) first.

Tidy by Category, Not by Location

This goes back to Rule #3. When we sort we gather all items that belong in the same category. Let’s use clothing as an example–we also gather all of our client’s clothing together. But unlike Marie Kondo, who has the client create a large pile, we use garment racks and sort all clothing by style and color, allowing the client to see how much they of a particular item or color, making it easier to see what they have and therefore decide what stays and what goes.

Follow the Right Order (Clothes, Books, Paper, Miscellaneous Items, Sentimental)

We allow our client to dictate what we do first. During the in-home assessment we create a list of priorities and from there develop an action plan. We believe there is no right or wrong place to start, but we encourage clients to start in a room where they feel it won’t be very difficult to make decisions during the decluttering process.

Does it Spark Joy?

We don’t ask this exact question, but if a client is struggling with what to keep and what to get rid of we’ll ask them questions such as “When is the last time you used this/wore this?” “What would be the worst thing that would happen if you got rid of this?” or “How does this benefit you?” If there is no clear answer, then most likely it’s time for these items to go.

On the show, Marie consults with the families, but she doesn’t actually do the hands-on work. At Reclaim we provide full-service decluttering and organizing and we’ve found that our clients greatly appreciate this approach. The thought of decluttering and organizing a home can be a daunting task, but with our team we can get it all done in a matter of days. We do all of the sorting, provide support during the decluttering process, provide donation resources, and organize everything, putting personalized organizing systems in place that are easy to maintain for our clients. We have very high success rates when we see a project through from start to finish.

Q&A with Sehnita Joshua Mattison from “Episode 6: Breaking Free From a Mountain of Stuff”

How did you get to be on the show and what made you decide to apply?

They posted a casting notice to a local moms group I belong to on Facebook. We were determined to clean up our space, so we figured why not? For years I had been putting the idea of clearing out space on my vision board and this was going to help make that vision a reality.

Your husband Aaron already seemed on board with decluttering before Marie arrived. Has he always been the organized one?

Aaron grew up in a very organized household. His mother is extremely organized and tidy. I am definitely responsible for more of the clutter. If an item has a place to go Aaron has always been good about putting it back.

It seemed difficult for you to part with things that you no longer needed nor really wanted, but were still useful. How did you get over his hurdle and let go of those items?

Marie’s method of holding something and asking if it sparked joy really did work. By doing this process it made me get an idea of how much I really liked something. Also, putting like items together was helpful. Marie suggests sorting by category, not by room. By doing this we could see how much similar stuff we had, which made it much easier to get rid of things.

Books and magazines seemed to be particularly challenging for you. How did you overcome your attachment?

Magazines were particularly difficult for me because if I was going to get rid of them I wanted to make sure that they were going to the right place. I limited myself to a few baskets of magazines and made the commitment to part with the remaining ones. I ended up donating all of the extra magazines to a local senior center and they were thrilled.

You both mentioned that if there is an open space in your house it will get filled with stuff. Now that you have decluttered, have you found it’s easier to leave space open?

It’s much easier now to put things back that have a home. This process also helped me recognize that we need more pieces of furniture with storage so things have a place. And now that we have gone through all of our stuff and know exactly what we have, we are no longer buying things we don’t need.

What was the most useful tip Marie shared with you?

Marie’s folding technique is a game changer. It has helped in so many ways. Putting laundry away is so much easier. It’s easier to get dressed because I can see everything in my drawers and it’s even made packing a suitcase easier. In the past I would just stuff clothing in my suitcase until it was full, but now I am much more thoughtful about it. It really has made life so much easier!

Have you seen any changes with your children since getting rid of so much stuff? Especially their toys?

When we watched the show together as a family, the first thing my daughter Natalia said was “Where is my yellow school bus?” She was a little upset about that, but other than that the kids aren’t missing anything of what was given away. My son Ashton was very decisive about what he did and did not want, so that helped. I did feel guilty giving away toys that were gifts, but Marie suggests that the act of giving and receiving the gift is what you value and stays with you, not necessarily the actual gift so that was helpful.

The show was filmed eight months ago. Have you been able to maintain the systems Marie put in place?

The majority of it, yes. 90% of our house is in good shape. A few areas could still use some tidying up and reassessing, which is the next step. We are a work in progress.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Life & Legacy Organizing

Life & Legacy Organizing

At Reclaim we love organizing stuff! From closets and pantries to attics and garages, we’ve got you covered! One thing we don’t do is life and legacy organizing, but lucky for you we know someone who does! Have you ever asked yourself any of these questions?

• What important documents should I have hard copies of?

• If I got into an accident, would my loved ones know how I’d want them to handle it?

• Do I have everything valuable in my house documented and stored somewhere safe?

• Who can get to my passwords and online accounts if something happened to me?

• What exactly is a contingency plan?

It’s overwhelming stuff to think about. In a world where you’re told that everything is important, it’s hard to know what to do to be prepared for things like illness, accidents, and death. But if you put it off forever, life will decide when it’s time to deal with it—consequences and all. At Reclaim we have worked with several clients who have spent years picking up the pieces after a loved one has passed. Not having crucial information can make an already stressful time even more unbearable.

 Back Up Your Life™ specializes in life and legacy planning, preparation, and peace of mind. Founded by professional organizer Annette Adamska, Back Up Your Life™  customizes action plans rooted in best practices and personal support, built to help you document, store, save, and get things in place, once and for all.

 For more info check out http://letsbackupyourlife.com. Annette is offering her first ever  Jump Start Group Program in May. It’s a great way for people located in the Triangle to take action and get everything in order.

Tackle Toy Clutter

Tackle Toy Clutter

As the kids prepare their wish lists for Santa, now is the perfect time to declutter toys. This is not only to make room for new ones, but it’s also a great opportunity to show your children how they can help those less fortunate by donating toys they no longer use. Here is our four-step process for tackling playroom clutter:

1)  Sort. Gather all of the toys in the playroom and sort by item. Put like items together and trash anything that is broken or missing pieces. Now that you can see everything, it will be easier to see what you have and make decisions as to what stays and what goes. This is also the perfect time to remove all items that don’t belong in the playroom. Create a box of items that are to be stored other places.

2)  Declutter. Go through each category and select toys your children no longer play with. Place toys you are not keeping in designated boxes to donate and/or sell.

3) Contain. Now that you know what you are keeping, it’s time to contain items. Cubbies with baskets or bins are the perfect solution. They allow toys to be organized by type, easy for kids to access what they want without making your playroom look cluttered.

4) Label. The final step is to label all of the bins. This way your children will easily be able to identify what goes where. For little ones who can’t read yet, we love picture labels.

Check out this before & after of a playroom we recently decluttered and organized for a client!

October is ADHD Awareness Month

October is ADHD Awareness Month

CHADD, the leading resource on ADHD, estimates that 17 million adults and children are living with ADHD.

At Reclaim we often work with those effected by ADHD, whether having it themselves or living with someone who does. Being organized is a common challenge for those with ADHD. We set up systems and strategies for our clients to ensure that they are able to easily maintain them on their own. We also often recommend that our clients consult with an ADHD coach. We reached out to our favorite ADHD Coach Patty Blinderman of Positively Coaching ADHD and asked her to share her thoughts on executive functions and the role they play in becoming more organized.

Executive Functions- the keys to getting- and staying- organized

When we think of executive function (EF) skills, we may not connect them to our ability (or inability) to become more organized. The truth is that having weak EF skills can be a huge factor in whether we are able to succeed in this area.  If you experience difficulties in getting–or staying–organized, take this quick quiz to see if weak executive function skills may be at play.

The following is a list of EF skills, as defined by Guare and Dawson in their Smart but Scattered books.  Respond  “yes” or “no” to the question related to each skill to see if it is presenting an organizing challenge for you.

_____Response Inhibition– aka self-control.  Can you resist the urge to say “I don’t feel like doing it today,” “I don’t have the time,” “I’m too tired”…?

_____Working Memory– the ability to hold in our brain the steps to getting something done.  Can you remember everything that needs to be done to organize the master closet–or are some tasks/areas forgotten?

_____Emotional Control– The ability to manage emotions in order to complete a task or direct behavior. If you feel anxious about the amount of time or work needed to organize the kitchen, can you still manage to get it done?

_____Sustained Attention– Maintaining attention on a task despite boredom, distractibility, or fatigue.  Can you continue organizing your bedroom, even when someone rings your doorbell, or you have to sort 50 pairs of socks or you discover organizing it is harder than you thought?

_____Task InitiationCan you get started on cleaning out the fridge without procrastinating?

_____Planning/PrioritizationCan you formulate a plan to get the piles of office paperwork completed?

_____OrganizationCan you create and maintain systems so you can find what you need when you need it?

_____Time ManagementCan you accurately estimate how much time it will take to organize the pantry, allocate the time to do it, and stay within the time limits?

_____Goal-Directed PersistenceCan you set a goal to organize the pantry and follow through until it is finished without being distracted?

_____FlexibilityIf organizing the garage doesn’t work as you thought it would, can you revise your plan to get it done?

_____MetacognitionCan you stand back and take a birds-eye view of the work you are doing and ask “How is this going?” or “How am I doing?”

_____Stress ToleranceCan you cope with expectations/pressure (from yourself or others) to begin and complete tasks?

How many EF skills did you respond no to?  The truth is, any one of these skills can make it difficult to reach your organizing goals. The more “no” answers, the more challenging it will be to get and stay organized.  Hiring a professional organizer to work with you to set up organizational systems aligned with the way you live can provide a level playing field to set you up for success.

Knowing which EF skills are getting in your way is the first step.  Since EF skills can be improved by practice, working with an executive function coach to target your weaker skills is one way to support yourself to build routines to keep your stuff organized.  Which EF skills do you need to develop more fully to support your organizational goals?

Patty Blinderman, PCAC, PCC
ADHD and Executive Function Coach